In an inequitable system, the ROI on being female is terrible. You give more. You get less. You work harder. The system profits and you bear the cost — in opportunity, advancement, freedom, and money. The bottom line? You’re giving your value away.
You can’t get where you want to be without it. And yet, the very things that drive success in today’s attention economy — standing up and standing out to be seen and self-promote — are what you were taught not to do. Owning your value is the answer and a strategic power move that develops risk-resilience, advances your agenda, and creates real ROI where it money-matters most — in your career, business, and divorce.
Smart strategy, powerful positioning, and clear direction give you the brand presence, authority, and leadership to confidently and effectively make your next power move — and insist on your value — all the way to the bank.
➞ PROMOTIONS ATTAINED
➞ NEW OPPORTUNITIES LEVERAGED
➞ CORPORATE ENTERED & EXITED
➞ STARTUPS LAUNCHED
➞ BUSINESSES GROWN
➞ TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS LEFT
➞ EQUITABLE TERMS NEGOTIATED
➞ DIVORCES ACCELERATED
➞ BOOKS PUBLISHED
➞ TED TALKS GIVEN
➞ CHOICES EMPOWERED
➞ VALUE MONETIZED
➞ IMPACT ELEVATED
➞ BOLD MOVES MADE
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Professional women work with me when they’re ready for strategy — not more hustle. I offer private 1:1 coaching and consulting for leadership development, career moves, business growth, and divorce strategy. My free Negotiation Masterclass gives you practical skills to position your value, hold your agenda, and get paid — without apology. The MoneyLoveSexPower Mastermind is for bold women making bold moves within the supportive structure of networked community. And for coaches want to go deeper, Down The Rabbit Hole is a neuroscience-based training and certification program for navigating complexity and creating real authenticity and agency in every conversation. However you work with me, the goal is the same — clarity, strategy, and results that move you forward and get you paid. Explore the many ways to work with me or let’s jump on a call to find your just right fit.
Women’s value has traditionally been defined by sacrifice, not return. Like Ginger Rogers, we do everything Fred Astaire did — but backwards and in heels — while clutching our keys between our fingers, carrying all the responsibility, and juggling impossible expectations. For what? The return on our hard work is less money, less power, less safety, and less freedom — in a system that profits from our minimization. And in today’s attention economy, success requires you to show up, stand out, raise your voice, and lead — which is everything you’ve been taught not to do for safety. And now what you want is tied to risk — triggering a threat response. That’s why you need a strategy — one that works with your brain and moves you forward with clarity, confidence, and courage. Empowerment tools and frameworks are used to unlearn conditional minimization and power your leadership with authentic presence, voice, and brand. Leading from your value powers strategic communication, navigation, and negotiation to position you with authority. Your effort, energy, and expertise drives your agenda to monetize your value and create more — money, opportunity, equity, safety, and freedom. Neuroscience gets you there. By strategically disrupting imagined fear-based safety triggers, The Brainwise Coaching Method tunes your nervous system for positive change and fuels a biochemical shift, increasing serotonin and dopamine, to work with your brain instead of against it. All those feel-good hormones power your energy and focus, giving you a strategic advantage in any situation.
As a coach, consultant, mediator, business owner, mom, & MS warrior, I know risk. And I know what it takes to make positive change. It’s one of the many reasons, I value freedom and choice as much as I do. I got off the hamster wheel to leave my marriage and Corporate America over 10 years ago. I launched my business without a safety net. And I know what it means to stop waiting. When I was diagnosed with MS in 2014, my neurologist warned me I could wake up and not be able to walk again. So, I had to let go of future what if’s to make the most out of right now. Working with my brain has kept me in remission since 2016. And it makes this work highly personal for me. I can’t know or control future outcomes, but I don’t have to. I trust that the choices I make today create the future I want tomorrow. YOU CAN TOO.
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