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Recognize the system isn't fair or rigged in your favor. Don't engage in heated emotional battles with your ex. You will only be prolonging the divorce process, increasing the cost and delaying your future recovery.
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Judging yourself and your feelings puts you on a merry-go-round of shame and blame. And it will never go anywhere. The only path forward is through your emotions. Trust that once you let yourself experience them, they will lose their power over you.
DIVORCE A CONTROLLING EX & FIND YOUR VOICE
Finding the courage to leave an emotionally abusive relationship is incredibly difficult. And finding yourself and your voice in this divorce process is crucial to getting what you want … and what you deserve. It can feel impossible … but it isn't with the right help and perspective.
6 SURPRISING FEELINGS YOU’RE GOING TO HAVE IN DIVORCE
From relief to elation, hope to nostalgia, pride to confidence - your emotions are complex and diverse. Discover how divorce can be a catalyst for positive growth and self-discovery. Allow yourself to indulge in unexpected feelings and embrace the multi-dimensional nature of your experience.
GET UNSTUCK AROUND YOUR DIVORCE DECISION
If you think of time as money, is this how you would invest it? What possibilities are available to you that you haven't considered? What would you want your kids to do if they were in the same situation? Only you can decide what's best for you. So, follow your heart … and your gut … and do what you'll be proud of later.
HOW TO MAKE SURE YOUR DIVORCE DOESN’T SCAR YOUR KIDS FOR LIFE
Discover how to navigate the challenging waters of divorce without scarring your kids for life. Learn valuable insights on communicating effectively with your children, prioritizing their well-being, and setting a positive example as a co-parent.
DIVORCE CAN BE THE BEST DECISION YOU’VE EVER MADE
Divorce can be the catalyst in your life to stop compromising yourself and your values, to stop allowing what you don't like. Relationships require equal give and take, but when you are doing all the giving, then something is seriously broken in the relationship. Even in a marriage, you shouldn't have to compromise who you are for someone else.
GAY MARRIAGE & DIVORCE
Discover how to navigate the complexities of LGBTQ marriage and divorce with confidence and clarity. Learn valuable insights on managing emotions, seeking support, honoring your values, and creating a future you can be proud of.
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Avoid common mistakes to create a better dating experience to be safe, confident, and value yourself above all else. Lose any expectations around the future. Insist on being treated like a queen. Be present in the moment. Trust your gut. And most importantly, have fun!
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Don't let overwhelm hijack your divorce. Discover how to navigate the turbulent waters of divorce with confidence and clarity. Learn the critical mistakes to avoid and empower yourself to take ownership of the process. Unveil the secrets to rebuilding your life with purpose and fulfillment after divorce.
7 STEPS TO CHOOSING THE RIGHT DIVORCE LAWYER
Discover the 7 essential steps to finding the perfect divorce lawyer for your unique situation. Avoid wasting time and money by following expert advice on navigating this challenging process. Learn how to identify red flags, interview potential attorneys, and make the right choice for your future.
FORGET NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS. TAP INTO THE LAW OF ATTRACTION INSTEAD!
Resolutions are made and then forgotten. Harness the Law of Attraction instead to create small intentions you can integrate into your daily life in a million different ways. Let it work with you and support you in everything you do.
7 STEPS TO FINDING PEACE IN YOUR DIVORCE
Finding peace in the midst of turmoil can feel like an impossible task, especially during a challenging divorce. But what if I told you that peace is a state of being that you can tap into at any time? By focusing on self-awareness, forgiveness, and positive intentions, you can transform your life and experience the joy you deserve.
STOP PLAYING THE DIVORCE BLAME GAME
Let go of regret. Let go of guilt. Let go of blame. Your relationship didn't fail because of you. It failed because one, or both of you, forgot to dance every day. Cherish it for what it gave you at the time. Be thankful that the dance it had become is over. And give yourself permission to let go of what it could have or should have been.
WHO IS TO BLAME WHEN A PARTNER CHEATS? HINT: NOT YOU!
Realize that you are now free from a relationship that wasn't serving you - that would never serve you. You deserve communication, honesty, and trust. There will always be bumps in the road, but the person you are meant to be with will trust in you, and the relationship, enough to give you honesty - no matter what.
IF NOTHING ELSE, HOLD ONTO GRATITUDE IN YOUR DIVORCE
Your hopes and dreams are always stronger than your fear and pain. So, get off the emotional rollercoaster for a minute and take a breath. Now, be grateful for that breath. You are alive! Your experience right now feels hard, but that is all part of living your life.
HOW I LOST MY MARRIAGE & FOUND MYSELF
I needed to wake up. I needed to find myself. I needed to ditch my love language and start creating something new. I needed to recognize and acknowledge my authentic self and not take her for granted ever again. Sometimes, we don't realize how important something is until it is almost lost.
FEELING LONELY AFTER YOUR DIVORCE? USE IT!
Loneliness is universal. We all know what it feels like, that empty ache in our chest. So, don't just sit there. Indulge in it. Embrace it. Make it yours. Make it uniquely your own. And lastly, make it work for you. You are the only one who can.
DON’T LET DIVORCE DESTROY YOUR FAMILY
Divorce is not the end of your family, but a transition to a new, more functional structure. Your children need you now more than ever to be their rock amidst the storm. By reinventing your life WITH your kids and prioritizing their needs above your hurt, you can create a stable co-parenting relationship that reinforces the concept of family.
THRIVE DURING YOUR DIVORCE WITH THESE 4 SELF-CARE TIPS
Self-care is about more than just a mani-pedi or a new haircut. It's about nourishing your soul. We are three-dimensional beings, and achieving alignment in all three dimensions through self-care is essential. Nurturing and aligning your mind, body, and spirit will remind you of who you really are and propel you forward in living your best life.
HELP! I’M IN DIVORCE FOG!
Tired of feeling lost in the fog of divorce? Discover how to clear your mind, make informed decisions, and create a vision for your future. Find out why understanding your lawyer's advice is crucial and how science explains the "divorce fog" phenomenon.
DIVORCE SUCKS. DON’T GO IT ALONE!
Tired of feeling lost and stuck in your divorce? Imagine having a dedicated partner to guide you through the confusion, pain, and fear towards a brighter future. A divorce coach is your ally, your cheerleader, and your roadmap to a life filled with clarity, empowerment, and new possibilities.
3 TIPS FOR EMBRACING YOUR SINGLE MOM STATUS
This is the time when you throw fear and self-doubt out the window. Listen to your inner you, your intuition and do what you think is best. Be present. Don't obsess about the past or worry about the future. You can find balance in your life again. You can be a great role model for your kids. The only person that can stop you is YOU.
DIVORCE GETS A BAD RAP
Divorce is opportunity. The door is wide open. All of them are. You just need to pick the one you like best. There is huge freedom for you in this space. And you've learned a lot about yourself in this process. A lot of the superfluous stuff got stripped away leaving you with … YOU. Your marriage didn't define you and neither will your divorce.
IN DIVORCE, HAPPINESS IS THE BEST REVENGE
It's easy to get stuck in distraction post-divorce when you don't have anything motivating you to move forward. So, stop comparing and start prioritizing YOU. You will receive a better return on your investment of time and energy.
IS SEPARATION THE NEW DIVORCE?
Are you considering separation as an alternative to divorce? Discover the surprising reasons behind this trend and how it's reshaping modern relationships. From financial realities to co-parenting strategies, separation is becoming a valuable and risky tool for couples navigating uncertain times.
7 MONEY TIPS FOR GETTING DIVORCED
Divorce is a journey filled with challenges, but it doesn't have to drain your happiness or bank account. By shifting your focus from money to what truly matters, you can emerge from this process stronger and happier. Discover how to navigate the financial aspects of divorce with clarity and confidence.
DON’T TELL ME YOU’RE SORRY I’M GETTING DIVORCED
Divorce is not failure. It's unpleasant, but it doesn't have to be scary. Divorce is just a reality when two people decide to walk down different paths. Divorce can motivate personal growth and empowerment. We need to shift the perspective on divorce, let go of past perceptions, and embrace the chance for a better, more fulfilling life.
THE TOTAL COST OF DIVORCE
The true cost of divorce goes beyond just finances. It also includes the loss of identity, the changing relationship with your children, and the upheaval of your way of life. But amidst the chaos lies a powerful choice - a chance for transformation. Dive deeper into understanding the impact of divorce and explore how it can be a catalyst for a brighter, more fulfilling future.
SUCCEEDING AT DIVORCE
Divorce is often characterized as wholly negative and, yet, it also has some pretty powerful benefits. Resilience, change, self-compassion, clarity, motivation, and staying true to what matters to YOU empowers a purposeful life.
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